Everyone reacts differently to a cancer diagnosis. Most experience a range of emotions triggered by the question ‘why me’? It takes time to work through these emotions and to come to terms with the situation. It’s natural to have worries and concerns about the future, your treatment plan and also life after treatment. Here are eight tips to help you cope with the diagnosis:
Getting good information about your cancer means you can make informed decisions about your care. Many people feel more confident and more in control if they know everything in detail. Others prefer to know much less and to leave decisions to their cancer care team. Whichever path you follow, you can be confident that your cancer care team wants the best for you.
It’s a good idea to attend the first appointments with your partner, a close relative or a friend so they can help you remember all the information you will be given and take notes. Before you attend your appointments write down any questions that you have:
Once you’ve learned about your cancer and have a treatment plan in place, you will probably want to share the news with your family and friends. Wait until you’re completely ready to talk as you don’t know how people will feel or react.
Although it can be a difficult conversation to have, it’s useful to tell people who can support you and lessen your anxiety. Decide what you’re going to say in advance and be prepared for their questions.
If you have children, tell them too as they will probably have already sensed something is wrong. How much you tell them depends on their age. The important point is to reassure them that it’s nobody’s fault. Tell them how you’re feeling and let them share their feelings and worries with you.
There will be days or weeks between your diagnosis and the start of your treatment — this is valuable time for planning. As well as ensuring that your daily life will be as easy as possible on your return home, this is an important time for you to come to terms with the situation. Many people find that they feel much better if they make a plan to cope with treatment as this makes them feel more confident about the situation and more in control.
Your cancer diagnosis can have an impact on your finances in a variety of ways and these are worth considering:
Seek financial advice if you need it.
Your cancer treatment can affect how you look and feel about yourself. Both chemotherapy and radiotherapy can cause side effects such as weight loss, hair loss and skin rashes. When you are home from hospital, it will be easiest to wear loose, comfortable clothing. You might find that wearing a headscarf or a wig will help you feel more confident when dealing with hair loss.
Dealing with your emotions can be harder, but practising self-awareness or meditation can really help. Making a playlist of your favourite songs to enjoy as you are sitting in waiting rooms and during quiet moments at home can also be beneficial.
It’s a good idea to eat healthily and keep active. The amount of exercise you do will depend on how you’re feeling and could be less than usual. Try to eat more nutritious meals. These will help to prepare your body for the treatment.
If you are having difficulty sleeping or are in pain, seek help from your doctor. If you take any herbal medicines, mention these early on as you may have to stop taking them before treatment begins.
It can be really beneficial to talk with someone who has had cancer and recently undergone treatment. They will have experienced similar emotions and anxieties and will understand how you’re feeling. They will probably have some good tips for coping with the various stages of treatment.
Facing cancer alone is far from easy so it’s a good idea to look for support. Your cancer care team will be happy to answer any questions you may have. They will understand your concerns about the treatment that lies ahead.
You may have people in your support network who you can talk to honestly about how you feel. If people want to offer practical help, give them a specific task such as helping with the school run or walking the dog.
If you don’t have family or friends to support you, ask your doctor if there are any local support groups you could join. There are also several groups online.
Many people prefer to stay involved with work and leisure activities, but it’s important that you pace yourself. Try not to get overtired and have some time to yourself each day. Find what works best for you now.
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